An introduction to my friendship notion − 22 July, 2008
A friend, a very bid word! And now this word has a new value with Facebook or others social networks. But it’s possible to be attached for a picture and some exchanges, but it’s not a friend relationship!
The first important person is my son and he is of course more important than my life.
Then, come myself and family, then true friends and finally friends.
Of course actually I don’t have any girlfriends so it’s easier to do a list.
What is my definition of a friend?
I do not have a lot of them so probably I have a problem to access to friendship or my values are not good. But, in fact I assume these values and don’t want to change them!
A friend is for life so it’s difficult to find and keep them and it take years to have real true friends!
Most of time, I am with women, because they brings me something I need like sensitivity and life. Sometimes, I can take her in my arm to protect her or just show my affection. There are no sexual things, even in my head. I could sleep with a true friend without thinking.
One day, I gave a kiss to a particular friend (of course a girl), not a French kiss, just a kiss like a mother to a young child. It was an affection kiss. Not all girls will accept that kind of relation. One time, I said to someone that in particular condition, I could have sexual contact with a particular friend and this friend knows it.
I give affection to my friends (girl) if they need or I can just speak of every thing and walk around or eat with them but they know they can call me 24 hour a day and have help for whatever they need and it means really every thing.
She can have 20 or 60, ages means nothing for me, live only is important!
And a man friend, yes of course, same interest but I will never sleep or kiss a male friend!
