Parents separated, then later divorced  − 13 January, 1983

Still by far the most painful experience in my life. Regardless of what parents tell you, children never get over it. I was one of the lucky ones - my parents divorce was not bitter.

Mind you I'm not saying that I wish my parents were still together. I honestly don't believe they are compatible as soul mates (friends maybe, but not soul mates). Nevertheless, it shattered my foundation. There were also times I felt neglected and both my mother and father spent emotional - if not physical - time away from us trying to find themselves.

I wouldn't wish divorce on my worst enemy.